Rimming, also known as analingus or anilingus, is a sexual practice that involves oral stimulation of the anal opening. This guide provides educational information about this intimate activity, including its prevalence, health considerations, techniques, and communication strategies. The information presented here is intended for consenting adults seeking factual, non-judgmental knowledge.
Rimming refers to the act of licking, kissing, or otherwise orally stimulating the anal area of a partner. Rimming also known as:
- Anilingus
- Tossing salad
- Eating ass
This activity is distinct from anal intercourse, though the two may occur during the same sexual encounter.
Successful rimming typically involves preparation:
#### The Receiving Partner
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- Timing: 30-60 minutes after bowel movement is ideal
- Cleaning: Thorough wash with soap and warm water, or shower
- Optional additions: Some people use anally-safe douches (used cautiously)
- Psychological readiness: Relaxation and comfort are essential
- Communication: Discussing preferences beforehand
#### The Giving Partner
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- Barrier selection: Choose appropriate protection method
- Preparation: Brush teeth, use mouthwash without irritants
- Mental readiness: Comfort with the activity
- Technique preparation: Learning preferred methods
- Cleanliness: Clean hands and face
Positions for Rimming
Different positions offer varying angles and comfort:
Receiving Partner Positions
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- Face-down position: Lying prone, commonly used and stable
- Knees and elbows: On all fours, accessible and controlling
- Knees to chest: Lying on back, requires more flexibility
- Side-lying: Comfortable for extended sessions
- Seated position: Sitting on face or on edge of furniture
Giving Partner Positions
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- Lying beneath: Receiving partner on top, face-to-buttocks
- Kneeling: Behind partner on all fours position
- Lying to side: Beside the receiving partner
- Seated: Partner across knees or between legs
Integration with Other Activities
Rimming often occurs alongside:
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- Masturbation: Self-stimulation during or before rimming
- Penetrative sex: May precede or follow intercourse
- Finger penetration: Combining oral and manual stimulation
- Prostate stimulation: In men, combined with anterior rectal touch
- Multiple partner scenarios: Part of group sexual activities
